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05/07/07

Mother’s Day

Posted by : Lauri in Adoptive Parenting Blog at 05:17 am , 347 words, 140 views  
Categories: Mother's Day


What do Moms really want for Mother's day? If you would have asked me prior to coming home with my daughter what I would like to receive for a Mother’s day gift I probably would have rattled off something like- Breakfast in bed, brunch, flowers, Mom jewelry, a special dinner and a nice card .


Those are just a few ideas that I think about when I think about Mother’s day. Today that is far from my mind as Mother’s Day approaches. So what do Moms really want? I can tell you what I would love to receive on that special day set aside to honor Moms. This is just my view.


I would love to sleep in past 6.30 am. I would love for my husband to change a diaper without me having to ask. I would love to have someone besides me bag up the garbage. I would love to find the diaper champ emptied and the bag replaced when it is full. I would love to have a load of towels washed. I would love to find the cat box already cleaned out.

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I would love to be told that I am loved, valued and appreciated. I would love to be able to eat a warm meal and have someone wait on me for change. I would love to be able to soak in a hot tub without having my toddler join me. I would love to crawl into bed at the end of a long day and find that the linens have been changed.


I would love a glass of wine and a moment to get lost in a good book. I would love one day ( heck I would settle for an hour) to just not have to meet anyone else’s need besides my own.


So while the flowers, brunch, soft fuzzy robes and slippers all seem like very special gifts… what I really want is a little help, to be valued and appreciated. What do you want for Mothers day? Care to share a memorable Mother’s day?


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Comment from: princess421 [Member] Email
As my husband told me in the beginnning that I am not his mom so I don't get "presents". He failed to see the point that he could get something (even a card) and put it from our child. Even have her scribble on a piece of paper. But I am getting off point...

So what I always long for is a nice day where I don't do much by way of housework and spend time having fun with my girl. However, now I am starting to get gifts from her of the handmade variety. I can't wait!

Happy Mother's Day!
Love,
Lauren
PermalinkPermalink 05/07/07 @ 06:09
Comment from: Lea Pisarik [Member] Email
This will be my first mother's day, as a mother, and I have been thinking about this, wondering what my husband will do. The funny thing is that I have not been able to think of anything that I want. I guess that's a good thing. Anything my husband thinks of will be appreciated.
PermalinkPermalink 05/07/07 @ 06:31
Comment from: Faith Allen [Member] Email · http://hoping.adoptionblogs.com/
AMEN!!

I read somewhere that the most romantic thing a husband can do for his "new mother"/wife is the dishes. LOL

The perfect Mother's Day for me would be having one day where I did not have to tend to another person's needs -- that and getting to sleep in past 6:30 or 7:00 a.m.

- Faith
PermalinkPermalink 05/07/07 @ 06:35
Comment from: Kelly [Member] Email · http://fost-adopt.adoptionblogs.com
AMEN!!!

I would love a day where I didn't have to "do" for everyone else.

This Mother's Day I will spend several hours in the car going to visit my son in his treatment foster home, where he will probably be snarly and rude. Doesn't that make you feel all warm and fuzzy, and anxious for Mother's Day to arrive?

For my ultimate Mother's Day event, check out my blog.

http://fost-adopt.adoptionblogs.com/index.php/weblogs/dreading-mother-s-day
PermalinkPermalink 05/07/07 @ 07:04
Comment from: Ani [Member] Email
My dh takes Mother's Day very seriously - maybe bc we went thru so much to build our family, maybe he would've been the same regardless of how we became a family of 3.

But, all I've asked for this time (my second Mother's Day) is NOT to host Mother's Day dinner for our whole gang. So far, I've gotten ourselves invited to my best friend's so I think I'm getting my wish :)
Happy Mother's Day!
PermalinkPermalink 05/07/07 @ 15:27
Comment from: Lori [Member] Email
We always do something really simple for Mother`s Day. Usually a picnic in our own back yard. I get a small plant and a card. ( Tho this year I am hinting for a new camcorder lol)

I am still a bit in awe of Mother`s Day. This will be my 8th and I am still aware of how close I came to missing out on being THE MOMMY !

Lori
PermalinkPermalink 05/08/07 @ 12:06
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